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I'm Zhivko. Anna and I have been together for thirteen years. What those years taught me, and why I ended up building an app to help me show up better.
Read the story →“Compromise only works when it goes both ways. If one person is always the one bending, it isn't a relationship anymore.”From the post
A month at home, week by week: what I do differently in each of the four phases of Anna's cycle, and what partner support across her month looks like.
Three mistakes I made for over ten years, before I learned the rhythm of Anna's month, and what partner support looks like once you stop guessing.
Most of our fights about nothing had three ingredients: tired, late, and the week before her period. What I do now, and where partner support starts.
We got home tired and Anna asked about the water meter I had forgotten. Partner support in the week before her period, in one calm sentence.
One thing I tried at home that week, in under 200 words. No advice from above, no selling. Unsubscribe in one click.
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Zhivko
Founder of The Real Husband
Thirteen years with Anna. Writes about the everyday work of a long relationship, and what building The Real Husband is teaching him.
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